A more in depth look of our conversation:

Disregarding the definition of what 'love' is:
CAN a person love two people, knowing that the split love are hurting deeply because of the knowledge of the love for the other?
If the answer is 'yes', does one really love another when their love is hurting the beloved more than not having the love at all?
Or, is this all a 'no' and that the whole 'monogamy' argument is valid..
and that one should or is only in love with one person, excluding every other possibility (disregarding all the possibilities that may arise...just to avoid any arguments regarding that part)

hmm....

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